I am fortunate in having an usual perspective as the owner of a Ukraine based International Dating Agency and I am able to tell you that yes you can win the heart of a younger woman. Equally I feel it wise to also consider the implications for both parties. The ladies registered to my agency range in age from 18 to 50 years old, but it is fair to say the overwhelming majority of these ladies are seeking an older man and this is even more noticeable with the younger ladies.
Why? What is the attraction of an older partner for these ladies? The first issue to bear in mind is that Russian, Ukrainian ladies are unique in that they seem to mature at a remarkably young age. Quite why this should be is not clear to me, but it is an undeniable fact. Perhaps it is a cultural, historical, or genetic evolution within these countries. Of course the physical & material hardship within these countries must play a part.
Many of these ladies embark on educating themselves at what is by Western standards, a very young age and many have completed a university course and obtained a diploma by the age of 22 years of age, they take very seriously their education. Gaining the best education achievable and a valid and profesional qualification is very important for the majority of these ladies and this normally comes before thoughts of marraige.
Contrary to the understanding of many, the majority of these ladies would like to pursue a career even after marriage and would like to maintain some intellectual challenge in their life, in preference to being totally dependent upon their partner.
It is a misconception to believe that the attraction for these ladies, of a older partner is only financial, but it is fair to say it can be a consideration. Quite simply these ladies are too mature, too smart for men of their own age. From my observations I will list some of the qualities they seek from an older partner, some of the attractions from their perspectives.
These ladies need and deserve respect, they are intelligent, aware and loving. Respect them for what they are. Someone that knows how to romance and treat a beautiful woman. Someone that can support them emotionally, spiritually and materially and someone that will listen to them value their opinions and value them as a human being.
Yes the vast majority of these ladies are very beautiful, but equally so many need to feel that their inner qualities are equally valued. So clearly the desires and aspiration of any man seeking a younger partner can be achieved, but what are the implications involved?
If the age difference is 20 years or more they will need to take care of themselves, keep fit and keep healthy (something many men in the west are doing). Be flexible and open. One obvious distinction with a mixed age marraige is that you will each be at different stages of life, but this need not be a problem. Each couple must find the compromise, the lifestyle that they each can sustain and achieve fulfilled with. Can you adapt to that?
Many men these days feel much younger than their years and there has been a notable shift in personal health and well being within perhaps one generation. As I have already stated these Russian, Ukrainian ladies have by western standards achieved a maturity well beyond their years, so the potential and possibility of meeting halfway exists.
There is a popular belief now in the West that 50 years old is the new 30 and 60 the new 40. I personally believe this is completely dependent on the individual, the lifestyle and attitudes etc., but there is no reason for a mixed age relationship not to work, not to be successful.
Any successful relationship needs mutual understanding, mutual respect and a degree of selflessness. Why should a relationship of differing ages not work? In many ways it has a better chance of success.
If you are lucky enough to win a Russian, Ukrainian lady she is probably going to be beautiful and attract much attention and as with all ladies they will enjoy being admired? It makes them feel good.
Do not feel vulnerable, remember she choose you and so far that you give to your love that which you yourself need, respect, kindness and support she is yours. Slavic women are arguably the most loyal on the planet and so far that you do not drive her away she is yours and yours only.
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