Men need to understand that women think differently when it comes to relationships. They are much more intuitive then men. They tend to come to understand problems and situations all at once. They take a broad perspective on things, which makes them prone to becoming overwhelmed at times. Men tend to focus on one problem at a time or a limited number of problems. They are also able to separate themselves from problems and minimize the complexities that may exist.
Women in relationships tend to be more sensitive then their male counterparts. This has a physiological basis. It has been noted that women have an enhanced physical alarm response to danger or threats. They tend to be more aware of non-verbal cues as well. That's why you can say something to your girlfriend, and three days later she asks you, "What did you mean when you said..." This is because women are hypersensitive to your words and actions.
Women in relationships tend to be more focused on where the relationship is going. This is natural for them, as it is in a women's biological make-up to want to settle down. Even if a woman says the opposite, her biological clock is always ticking. This causes her to be much more attached emotionally to her man. There are many examples in the animal kingdom where the female relies on the male for protection throughout her life. She, in turn, bears and raises the children. That doesn't mean that your girlfriend is thinking about children. It simply means she's more likely to want to be reassured that you are investing in her and only her.
This dynamic has changed in our modern world. No longer are women reliant on men for protection. The days of the stay-at-home mom have all but come to an end. Women now work full-time and pay their own bills. This results in women being much more independent in relationships. This isn't a bad thing. For instance, it is more acceptable now more than ever to "go Dutch" or even have her pay for your meal. Think about this the next time you are heading out for a dinner date!
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