Firstly, be confident. Yes, you heard me right. I've mentioned this dozens of times and I'll mention it for a few hundred times more. It's relatively easy to say be confident and expect some magic and poof! You're instantly confident. I'm sorry to disappoint you guys but I'm afraid it isn't the case. I will instead tell you what NOT TO do. It is important that you follow these guidelines closely.
A word of caution, avoid intimate physical contact if possible on the first few meetings or until she's more comfortable with you if possible. Your aim is to know her better and make her attracted to you, not for your hands to feast on. She would probably be too scared to even go out with you. A man with confidence would take the time to know her better, thus making her think that she's "expandable" and make her treasure him first.
Secondly, one thing women absolutely detest are guys who start dwelling on their ex girlfriends or even complaining on how bad their personal or work life is. Come on, which woman would like a whiny, wussy guy who is trapped in the past? That is an absolute no show of confidence, and must be avoided at all costs. Besides, why would the woman WANT to know about your ex and the troubles you went through with her? She'll think you're either a weak little man or a sympathy hungry person. So, don't say anything about the past unless it's humorous or helps the current situation.
At the same time, there are guys who would do anything to please the girl. So that doesn't make him her boyfriend. It just means she has a new slave. Keep doing that and the girl will start walking all over you. Just do things that you deem is worthy of your time and effort, and can actually achieve something. That being said, that doesn't mean you have to be a total spoiler and act high and mighty. Don't overdo it and be selfish, it'll create a worse impression on the woman. Everything in moderation, you'll just have to find the balance.
Lastly, if you're a person who likes to argue a lot, this is for you. If ever you're in the situation whereby you're getting into a heated argument with a girl, stop! Suck in your pride, and give in. Either that or say something funny or change the topic. Stay away from sarcastic remarks; she'll just assume you're a total snob. Why do I say give in? First off, they're girls, you expect to win them in terms of arguing? And secondly, it's not being a gentleman, and she'll have a pretty dented impression of you. Just avoid arguments at all costs.
Well, I hoped this article has helped you to a reasonable degree of what not to do, and guide you to the path of seducing women instantly!
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