Questions to ask before ending a relationship

There are many times throughout a relationship where one of you may consider ending it. Maybe you've been fighting a lot or maybe your personalities have begun to clash. Maybe she can't seem to quit complaining about you watching the football games you o so love. Whatever the reason may be, you are considering breaking up with her. However, before you do, you may want to ask yourself these questions in order to find out how you really feel.

1. Have you grown apart?

Sometimes people change over the course of a relationship. People develop different hobbies and different ideas. Maybe she's going to a different school in the fall and you've begun to distance yourself because you know you won't see her often enough. If the relationship is worth saving then these things are issues that you can address with her.

2. Has she broken your trust?

Has she cheated on you or lied to you? Has she done something that she knew you didn't approve of that has caused you to question her character? If so, you have to ask yourself if you can forgive her. If you can, then great. If not, then it's time to move on.

3. Are you bored?

Have you become less interested in her or has your eye begun to wander? Do you wonder what it would be like to be single? If yes, then you should probably end the relationship before you end up hurting her.

4. Are you worried what your friends think?

Sometimes we place too much importance on what other people think. If you are the kind of guy that determines his relationships based on the opinions of others, then stop! You need to understand that she's not dating your friends--she's dating you!

5. Do your parents like/dislike her?

Sometimes the opinions of our family can weigh heavily on our decisions. When it comes to breaking up with somebody, however, you have to disregard what they think. This is about two people: you and her. Even if your parents love her and think she is the perfect girl for you, it is important that you make this decision based on how YOU feel.

Breaking up with somebody can be one of the hardest things for a guy to do. Before you do it you must decide how you really feel. If you go through the list above then you will be much more equipped to make a decision either way.

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