Going out and doing things with a woman while you get to know one another is dating.
Well, what if I told you that you had the completely WRONG idea about dating?
Most men understand dating a woman, as a concept for a sensual ulterior motive; however, this is not always the case.
Here is a small list of some of the more common mistakes a man can make while dating a woman.
Mistake #1: Dates are simply to impress a woman.
Lots of guys think they have something to prove on dates. They "have to get her to like me!" So they'll try and take her to fancy places to show her a memorable time, and they'll try and brag about themselves to come off as important.
Mistake #2: Buying your way into the heart of a woman.
Sadly, many men think that if they spend enough money on a woman, they can get her to sleep with them. This is always (and has always been) a bad idea. Aside from the gold diggers in the world, most women don't care how much you're spending on a date.
Mistake #3: Activities are a pointless waste of time!
Just the sheer act of going out to places with somebody doesn't mean as much as you think it does. If you do the typical "dinner and a movie" thing, that won't necessarily get the girl to like you. Spending time together does not always equate to romantic interest.
Mistake #4: Guys can become BORING!
If there are no sparks of chemistry, the date is a dud, this can happen, when men get nervous on their dates. Most often, these men continually talk about ordinary subjects while they show little to none of their sparkling personality. They just go through the motions with hopes of not messing up their date.
Mistake #5: Guys follow a pattern of failure.
Some men think dates should go a certain way, they have their own ideas of how things are suppose to turn out, they then follow the same strict pattern of failure. They always go to the same places, while asking their dates the same questions they have asked all the other women they have dated. There is no fun or natural impulses offered into their interactions.
What does it mean to go on dates with a woman?
Simple: Dating is the process of building comfort, strengthening emotional connections, and building attraction!
Where you go and the amounts of money you spend are not important, what is important is your ability to connect with the woman you are dating and positively encouraging the way she feels about you.
This is the key to why many men can go on a cheap date with a woman, while sweeping her off her feet, while other men may overspend on creative dating and get absolutely nowhere with the woman.
You should always focus on how you can encourage an emotional connection with the woman you date.
You should be open to talking about your shared passions and interests, while trying to figure out what her hopes and dreams may be.
Take care to keep away from boring questions that involve work rather you might consider rephrasing your questions while adding interesting fun while on a date. As an example, you may ask her, If you were not held back by the laws of time and space and could do anything, what would you do.
Most importantly: HAVE FUN!
Tell a few jokes, even if they are not the best, simply have fun, while steering the conversation towards her topics of interest, you should be curious of whom she really is.
More importantly, never shy away from relationship discussions.
Too many guys are afraid to even broach the topic of sex while on a date. But you have to build the sexual tension to intensify the attraction.
Be a little wicked by flirting and joking with her, as this will encourage and build the attraction she has for you and then you can move on to the next level of your relationship.
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