Do you have a favorite woman, yet despite all your romantic efforts, you remain just friends?
Do you know the reason for this occurrence?
More than likely you did know how to flirt with her properly.
Since flirting is a vital element in the process of attraction and you do not do it correctly, or even worse, not at all, you may be leaving your opportunity to be with the woman up to chance.
Why is flirting essential?
The answer is simple: Flirting is the process by which sexual tension is created!
And if you don't have sexual tension in an interaction, there is no attraction. And if there's no attraction, what does that make you?
Yes, that is right; it makes you simply a friend.
You can increase the attraction a woman finds in you by knowing how to flirt with her.
Flirting is no big secret as many might consider, flirting is a lot of fun. Flirting does not work only if it is not done properly.
See, there's an art to flirting with a woman. Flirting is all about communicating your sexual interest in the girl, without coming right out and SAYING it.
This is called "mixed signals."
Your actions are communicating one thing, but your words are saying something completely different.
Some of the more common mistakes of flirting with women that men make may include:
MISTAKE #1: They Are Too Obvious
Too many guys get excited about the women they are attracted to, and will come out and say exactly what they are feeling. What they don't realize is that when presented with this information, the girl is then forced to make a judgment, right then and there, about how she feels about THEM.
And if you haven't laid the proper groundwork beforehand, chances are the girl is going to reject you.
MISTAKE #2: They Aren't Obvious Enough!
On the flip side of that coin are the guys who communicate NO INTEREST AT ALL, yet in their minds they think that the girl should know how they are feeling. Then, when they make their move, the girl is surprised because up to this point, she had no idea the guy was interested in her!
MISTAKE #3: Relying On Words Rather Than Actions
Flirting has a good deal to do with the words you use; however, non-verbal body language is a more powerful method. These are those little things such as, tilting your head, raising an eyebrow or casting a wicked little smile, since they give new meaning to otherwise innocent remarks.
MISTAKE #4: They Take Things Too Seriously
Flirting is fun and light when done properly. When men begin adding serious romantic gestures with flirting, the sexual tension begins to break down.
You are doing something wrong when you or the woman is not having fun while you flirt.
We could list more mistakes; however, this should provide you with a clear picture. Do you wonder what the right way to begin flirting is?
Use as much innuendo as you can while you are flirting, however the secret is in keeping it subtle.
Let us say you are at a bar, for example and the woman you are with orders a drink and then asks if you would like one as well, you can jokingly say to her, You aren't trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me, are you, while adding a nod and a wink.
This communicates your interest, it's insinuating sex, but you're not coming outright and saying it. It's implied, and it's fun, and its light hearted.
On the other hand, when a woman says something temptingly naughty to you, you might say to her, Stop trying to seduce me, you minx! You know I don't do that on the first date.
See how that works?
Then, as you begin to flirt more and more, you can start getting a little more obvious about your interests, while never really crossing that line.
You will notice how the attraction between you and the woman begins to build. Then one day you find that a harmless bit of flirting has turned into seduction.
The real fun begins at this point.
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