Or better yet, how do you let her know that the vibe you shoot in the beginning, it really you?
How could she know that when she is with you all what you said will be backed up?
All three of these questions have the same answer.
Credibility.
When most guys think they do not have enough value, 90% of the time, the credibility they lack. Most of all, used to create value in these days only serves to make a nasty woman-repelling player vibe.
(and anyone who knows I do not even teach value. Not a fucking second!)
"Player vibe" is not really a bad atmosphere, but a mistake to build and maintain credibility.
Being able to establish credibility is one of the key components to sleep with a girl soon.
The second component is the sexual tension.
And as a good student of pick-up, you know that some women need sexual tension to sleep with you and the other half need credibility first. (You know it, huh?)
So let's get to it:
There are three levels of credibility.
1. Security
2nd Community
3rd Direction
Safety: The most basic and fundamental level of credibility, you must demonstrate safety, before a woman will be alone with you and sleep with you.
Commonalities: You must show the same for a woman to continue sleeping with you, or have a relationship with you.
Direction: You need to show direction to get a woman to leave her current boyfriend or change her existing life plans to be with you.
A WORD ABOUT SOCIAL PROGRAMMING ->
You must realize that every person you meet is socially programmed in a different way. Although you have social programming. We all do.
It is not necessarily a bad thing. On the contrary, it is very useful.
Realize that although we understand much of the woman's behavior comes from her social programming, we can not expect her to realize it.
While men have developed an instinct to try to sleep with as many women as possible, women have developed an instinct to choose guys who demonstrate a great chance to stick around to raise children.
And this instinct is reinforced by social programs.
Her programming is her reality. Her programming is literally her world.
And credibility is about showing you understand her world.
Here is an example ->
Think about if you were in your bedroom. Hot sitting in a chair.
And then a guy came in and he said he was cold. And wanted to turn up the heat. He said he liked the couch you sat in and asked if he could urinate in the corner.
You would feel pretty uncomfortable with him. You might even think he is crazy.
He is showing that he is not seeing the same reality as you. He is "in his own world".
I bet you would not trust a guy like that.
Since he has shown you that he does not understand your world, and do not respect your world - you probably would not make contact with him, or feel like giving him compliance.
This is how women feel when you do not show it.
If she thinks it's bad for people to Kiss and Tell (and most women do) -> You should show her that you also think it is bad for people to Kiss and Tell.
The fact that you have the same perception of the world that she will build your credibility immensely.
You can think of three levels in this way:
Safety - It is safe to have you in her world.
Commonalities - You see the same things in her world. (A similar beliefs, values and goals)
Direction - You have the opportunity to reorganize and change her world.
These are best demonstrated in order.
And you can get really good at this. At first, guys are often good at meeting a certain type of woman.
It is because he naturally understands a certain type of worldview.
But as you well, you'll begin to match every woman's worldview.
The best way to do this is by anticipating her thoughts and verbalizing her feelings or opinions about the world, as if they are your own.
At first you will only remember things she said, and then repeat it after she forgot that she said something.
When you get a great hike her reality and leading. Eventually to the point where you can intuitively understand her reality. She will trust you to change it for her. You enter her world, and then begin to teach her new
things about her world.
That's when you know you're getting this thing.
When someone comes to understand a woman's reality so well, has she not only thinks he is lucid and knowledgeable, she feels just a connection.
She thinks "He's just like me!"
This is really the easiest thing in the world. Yet so many people mess it up.
It is a great piece and you watch your game improve dramatically when you get it here.
How could she know that when she is with you all what you said will be backed up?
All three of these questions have the same answer.
Credibility.
When most guys think they do not have enough value, 90% of the time, the credibility they lack. Most of all, used to create value in these days only serves to make a nasty woman-repelling player vibe.
(and anyone who knows I do not even teach value. Not a fucking second!)
"Player vibe" is not really a bad atmosphere, but a mistake to build and maintain credibility.
Being able to establish credibility is one of the key components to sleep with a girl soon.
The second component is the sexual tension.
And as a good student of pick-up, you know that some women need sexual tension to sleep with you and the other half need credibility first. (You know it, huh?)
So let's get to it:
There are three levels of credibility.
1. Security
2nd Community
3rd Direction
Safety: The most basic and fundamental level of credibility, you must demonstrate safety, before a woman will be alone with you and sleep with you.
Commonalities: You must show the same for a woman to continue sleeping with you, or have a relationship with you.
Direction: You need to show direction to get a woman to leave her current boyfriend or change her existing life plans to be with you.
A WORD ABOUT SOCIAL PROGRAMMING ->
You must realize that every person you meet is socially programmed in a different way. Although you have social programming. We all do.
It is not necessarily a bad thing. On the contrary, it is very useful.
Realize that although we understand much of the woman's behavior comes from her social programming, we can not expect her to realize it.
While men have developed an instinct to try to sleep with as many women as possible, women have developed an instinct to choose guys who demonstrate a great chance to stick around to raise children.
And this instinct is reinforced by social programs.
Her programming is her reality. Her programming is literally her world.
And credibility is about showing you understand her world.
Here is an example ->
Think about if you were in your bedroom. Hot sitting in a chair.
And then a guy came in and he said he was cold. And wanted to turn up the heat. He said he liked the couch you sat in and asked if he could urinate in the corner.
You would feel pretty uncomfortable with him. You might even think he is crazy.
He is showing that he is not seeing the same reality as you. He is "in his own world".
I bet you would not trust a guy like that.
Since he has shown you that he does not understand your world, and do not respect your world - you probably would not make contact with him, or feel like giving him compliance.
This is how women feel when you do not show it.
If she thinks it's bad for people to Kiss and Tell (and most women do) -> You should show her that you also think it is bad for people to Kiss and Tell.
The fact that you have the same perception of the world that she will build your credibility immensely.
You can think of three levels in this way:
Safety - It is safe to have you in her world.
Commonalities - You see the same things in her world. (A similar beliefs, values and goals)
Direction - You have the opportunity to reorganize and change her world.
These are best demonstrated in order.
And you can get really good at this. At first, guys are often good at meeting a certain type of woman.
It is because he naturally understands a certain type of worldview.
But as you well, you'll begin to match every woman's worldview.
The best way to do this is by anticipating her thoughts and verbalizing her feelings or opinions about the world, as if they are your own.
At first you will only remember things she said, and then repeat it after she forgot that she said something.
When you get a great hike her reality and leading. Eventually to the point where you can intuitively understand her reality. She will trust you to change it for her. You enter her world, and then begin to teach her new
things about her world.
That's when you know you're getting this thing.
When someone comes to understand a woman's reality so well, has she not only thinks he is lucid and knowledgeable, she feels just a connection.
She thinks "He's just like me!"
This is really the easiest thing in the world. Yet so many people mess it up.
It is a great piece and you watch your game improve dramatically when you get it here.
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