When responding to a woman's online profile, many guys seem completely unaware of one very important factor.
While most guys, even the great looking ones, get very few responses to their profiles, most any woman who is even remotely desirable will likely receive dozens of email responses. And a totally hot woman could be literally deluged with responses from hundreds of guys within hours of putting her profile online.
So in order to stand out, not only do you need a memorable response, but you need to write a killer headline to grab her attention in the first place. If you don't, you take the serious risk of not even getting your response read, yet alone answered, no matter how good it is.
I will discuss strategies for the response itself in a future article.
What I want to focus on here is how to create an attention grabbing subject headline that will get you instantly noticed. And not only get you noticed, but get a woman to see you as an edgy, challenging, self-confident guy before she even opens your response or sees your profile.
Most guys just headline their response with some approval-seeking compliment of how beautiful the woman is, or something about how much they have in common.
How many of these cloned emails do you think she will read through until she finally gets bored and just starts bypassing any email that even looks as lame as all the rest?
Knowing this, it's imperative that you think outside the box. I have found the most effective headlines are completely counter intuitive to what you might normally think.
I have used several unique headlines that successfully got my response read and answered, but the headline that worked far and away the best for me was very simple. All I put in the subject line was "Just another Boring Response--Nothing to see here". Of course she had to take a look and happily found that my response was anything but boring.
Of course, whenever you send something to someone and basically tell them not to read it, they are automatically compelled to look at it. And with all these other guys almost begging her to read their email, this headline will immediately set you apart.
Also, an edgy self-depreciating headline like this not only shows a good sense of humor, but also displays the self-confidence to be able to poke a bit of fun at yourself. It also shows a certain awareness of the other emails she's getting by making fun of how all the other predictable, boring, approval-seeking guys are responding to her.
Just this bit of knowledge alone will put you head and shoulders above most other guys, even if they are younger, thinner, or more better looking than you.
David Curtis is the author of The Smart-Ass Guide to Approaching and Dating Women, where you can learn to stop approaching women with the intent of seeking THEIR APPROVAL and instead learn to approach women with the mind set that the woman must earn YOUR APPROVAL. To read and learn more about how to successfully and confidently approach and meet women, go to http://www.alphadater.com
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