First Date Guidelines for Mobile Chat Partners

First dates are always an embarrassing experience. Most especially if the date is going to be with your mobile chat partner. Generally speaking, you don't know anything much about the person you are going to have a date with. Maybe aside from what the two of you have talked about in your previous messages to each other and his profile, you can't be certain that you have learned everything you need to know about that person. Also, the first dates for mobile chat partners are the time when they evaluate their partners in terms of personality, traits, and character.

To be sure that your first date is going to be a great one, here are the things that you should keep in mind:

1. Talk well and listen attentively

Talking too much is a turn off. Just listening to what the other person is talking about the whole time is not good as well. Take your share of nice conversations about yourself. Listen to what your partner is sharing about her life. If you two really mesh with each other, you won't run out of things to discuss and talk about. The less moments of silence on the first date, the better.

2. Settle for a public meeting place

If you choose a public place for the date, you are ensuring both the safety and comfort of the two of you. Since you don't really know a lot about the person you are meeting with, it is only practical to choose a popular fine dining restaurant for the date. Anywhere public that the two of you can talk intimately is a good meeting place for your first date.

3. Don comfortable clothing

Select clothes that best fit the occasion. If it is a dinner date, then dress for one. Don't go overboard and wear your mini black dress though. A conservative look is more like it. You can go back to your usual clothes after all the formalities are over. Your more revealing outfits could come on later dates, if it comes to that. Showing too much skin is not advisable during first dates.

4. Make eye contact

Eye contact is a good way to show interest. Do this all the time, especially when your date is talking about something. If you fail to look at her as she tries to initiate small talks over dinner, she might think that what she's talking about is not interesting to you or that you're not interested in her altogether.

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Jay Sanders writes for Ilovetexting.com - mobile chat community