Monday, January 20, 2014

In the course of my interactions while researching the romance scams, a grandmother of 45 years old, I talked about her dating problems and how he was cheated of more than $ 3,000. Her husband died several years ago, and she had been living in a big house alone.

According to her, she was very lonely and needed someone to talk heart to heart. He said that even among friends, family and other relatives, he felt a deep void in his life, and she needed her own man to share his life with.

Given its status as a widow, she felt that the online dating scene would give a degree of anonymity, while at the same time serving the purpose of carrying into contact with the right man I wanted.

So was signed with an online dating service. Three months later, he lost several thousand dollars to a scammer.

Even with the fact that she was cheated, yet he has been actively seeking a partner. According to her, she feels lonely, and she would do anything to solve that problem.
As such, she has continued its search for an online partner.

Now, she was not the only case I found. I know enough women who entered the online dating scene, due to loneliness. For most of them preferred to date no one available, provided that the care giver could so longed to live alone by themselves.

For example, a woman, who is 44 years with 3 children, insists on dating a boy who is half his age, all in the name of curing his loneliness. She has refused to bow to calls to reconsider its position. For her, she's not alone, and that's all that matters.

Many women are in similar shoes, but the situations and people involved may vary. Anyway, it appears that loneliness is a key factor that drives thousands of people in the online dating scene.

And this factor alone is one of the emotional needs of people looking for online dates, which the fraudsters exploit to operate successfully. They do everything possible to give maximum attention to their objectives, and make an extra effort to attend. They send flowers, clothes, chocolates and other gift items on ordinary days, and special days.

As one lady told me, since most of his family and friends just remembered, even on her birthday to send gifts or call for such overwhelming attention of a man she met online in this way, although was largely unknown to her, meant a lot to her. It made her feel much needed and wanted to go, after his recent divorce.

The problem of loneliness has led many men and women in the United States and other Western countries are losing millions of dollars a month for dating scams. And the scams are still going on until now.

The best way to deal with the scams is to educate yourself about it so that you can prevent it from happening to you or your loved ones.

If you still face the problem of loneliness and want to get a partner through internet dating, then you need to know how to solve that problem, and how to respond to the right people online.

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